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Я уже достиг вершины

Недавно знакомый рекрутер рассказал мне любопытную историю. 

Пару лет назад он сделал «холодный» звонок возможному кандидату с предложением работы. Кандидат вежливо отказался, сказав, что он не заинтересован. Рекрутер удивился, так как предлагаемая должность была намного выше, чем та, которую занимал кандидат. При этом у него были все необходимые навыки и квалификации. 

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Мой знакомый попытался его уговорить, и тогда кандидат сказал удивительную фразу: «Я уже достиг вершины«. Рекрутер был знаком с компанией, где работал кандидат, но перепроверил все еще раз. Кандидат был очень, очень далеко от вершины — его текущая должность даже не была руководящей. 

Мой знакомый снова позвонил и попытался объяснить, что тот совершает ошибку. И тогда кандидат объяснил, что «достигнуть вершины» для него означает, что он любит то, чем занимается и любит компанию, в которой работает. Он считает условия работы там справедливыми: платят достаточно денег, чтобы чувствовать себя комфортно, у него прекрасный соц.пакет, гибкий график работы и, что особенно ему важно, он ни разу не пропустил из-за работы школьный утренник, встречу с друзьями, день рождения родителей и любое другое важное событие

Кандидат прекрасно понимал, что произойдет, если он примет предложение и шагнет вверх по карьерной лестнице. Ему предстоит больше времени уделять работе и меньше своим увлечениям, постоянные разъезды в ущерб семейным праздникам — больше стресса, меньше того, что приносит радость. «Оно просто того не стоит» — добавил он.

В современном обществе принято достигать, рваться все выше, делать все больше. И это правильно и здорово, но с одной оговоркой — важно быть уверенным, что то, что вы делаете — это то, чего хотите именно вы

Вершина, к которой стремитесь — ваша, а не навязанная обществом или семьей? Как часто бывает так, что нам предлагают нечто престижное, от чего не принято отказываться, и мы хватаемся за эту возможность, не успев подумать — а оно мне надо? Престижная работа, при которой не остается времени для себя, отношения с человеком, от которого в восторге родственники, но не вы, изнуряющая ипотека, потому что у всех друзей уже есть свои квартиры… 

На консультациях я спрашиваю «А чего хотите вы?». 
«Хо-рррррр-ооооо-ший вопрос…» — обычно слышу я протяжные слова, а затем паузу. Часто клиенты не могут ответить на этот вопрос. Многие из нас разучились слышать и слушать себя, понимать свои потребности.

Прислушивайтесь к себе, спрашивайте «А хорошо ли это для меня?», «А правда ли я этого хочу?». Этот простой экспресс-самоанализ убережет от ощущения, что вы не на своем месте, живете не свою жизнь не с теми людьми и т.д. 

Сложно разобраться самостоятельно? Я рада быть рядом с вами







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